This Emo Couple Got Married at The Church in a My Chemical Romance Music Video

Love can be found in the most unexpected places, and for Vanessa and Jordan, it was at an emo night in Los Angeles. Their journey from a fateful night out to a unique, memorable wedding has been nothing short of extraordinary.

Vanessa first encountered Jordan’s friends on a night out at an emo-themed event. Emo nights, characterized by karaoke and DJ sets playing nostalgic emo hits, set the perfect stage for their initial connection. “We were all singing songs from bands like Fall Out Boy and My Chemical Romance,” Vanessa recalled. It wasn’t long before one of Jordan’s friends texted him a picture of Vanessa, piquing his interest. Two weeks later, they met again, and sparks flew.

Their relationship faced a significant challenge early on due to the pandemic. Just a month and a half into dating, COVID-19 lockdowns began. Jordan, whose father was at high risk due to cancer, and Vanessa had to navigate their budding romance with caution. “We’d meet up during lunch breaks, eat in our cars, and spend weekends outdoors in parks,” Vanessa shared. Despite the hurdles, their bond grew stronger, leading them to move in together after two years.

The proposal had its own set of dramatic twists. Jordan’s initial plan to propose at the site of their first date was thwarted when his car’s catalytic converter was stolen. Undeterred, he chose a more intimate moment to pop the question. On the morning of Vanessa’s gastric bypass surgery, Jordan proposed, offering a beacon of joy amidst her anxiety. “He proposed before the surgery, and when I woke up, he was there, putting the ring on my finger,” Vanessa said. The moment was both a relief and a source of happiness, especially when she woke up to numerous congratulatory messages.

Planning the wedding was an adventure in itself. Vanessa and Jordan’s shared love for emo music heavily influenced their wedding theme. They decided on black as the primary color, reflecting their unique style. Initially, they aimed to tie the knot on a specific date, but it wasn’t available at their dream venue: the church featured in My Chemical Romance’s “Helena” music video.

Their desire to marry at such an iconic emo landmark stemmed from a prior visit where Vanessa felt an emotional connection to the place. “I really want to get married here,” she told Jordan, who laughed it off at the time. With their initial wedding date unavailable, they briefly considered a Vegas wedding. However, their friends’ enthusiasm and determination reignited their dream. Jordan’s best friend, who was also their officiant, played a crucial role in securing the venue.

After negotiations and some date adjustments, Vanessa and Jordan set their wedding date to align with their anniversary, keeping things simple and meaningful. The church staff was accommodating, allowing them to decorate the venue to their liking, even offering a coffin as part of the decor.

Vanessa and Jordan’s wedding was more than just a ceremony; it was a celebration of their journey and shared love for emo culture. From their chance meeting to their emo-themed nuptials, their story is a testament to finding love in unexpected places and staying true to one’s unique identity. Their wedding, featured in People magazine and widely celebrated on social media, stands as an inspiring example of how embracing individuality can lead to extraordinary love stories.