Why Are Weddings So Expensive? w/Alina K of Petals & Fields

Weddings are some of the most cherished moments in a couple’s life, but they often come with hefty price tags and immense stress. Alina, CEO of Petals and Fields Design and a second-generation floral designer, sheds light on the underlying reasons behind these costs and stressors, as well as the beauty of investing in professional vendors. Featured in People Magazine and Southern Bride, Alina has been an event architect since 2016, bringing a unique perspective to the wedding industry.

One common misconception about weddings is that they are overpriced or unnecessarily extravagant. Social media platforms often showcase opulent weddings, setting unrealistic expectations for couples. While some argue that weddings are a waste of money, Alina offers a different perspective: weddings celebrate the sanctity of marriage and mark the beginning of a beautiful new chapter.

“Hiring professionals allows couples to fully enjoy their special day without stress,” Alina explains. Wedding vendors, including florists, photographers, and planners, bring years of expertise to ensure the event runs smoothly. These professionals also navigate the challenges of overhead costs, labor, and timelines. For example, florists like Alina design intricate arrangements under tight deadlines, transforming venues into breathtaking spaces that enhance the overall experience.

While DIY weddings might seem like a budget-friendly option, they often lead to added stress and unintended consequences. Alina shares stories of family members or friends taking on responsibilities like creating floral arrangements or setting up ceremony arches. While well-intentioned, these efforts can result in strained relationships and logistical mishaps.

“DIY weddings can quickly turn into a nightmare,” Alina notes. Family members or friends may lack the experience to handle tasks efficiently, leading to delays and added stress. Professional vendors, on the other hand, bring a seamless, “white glove” experience, allowing couples to enjoy their day without worry.

Florals often receive criticism for being a significant wedding expense because they are perishable. However, Alina emphasizes that flowers are more than just decorations—they’re art. “Walking into a bare room versus one filled with florals transforms the atmosphere entirely,” she says. Flowers create a magical ambiance that elevates the event’s overall experience.

For couples concerned about the fleeting nature of flowers, floral preservation offers a lasting keepsake. Many florists provide services to preserve bouquets and arrangements, turning them into cherished mementos that can be displayed in the couple’s home for years to come.

Alina’s passion lies in working with clients who trust her expertise and creative vision. She recalls a client who provided minimal guidance, simply asking her to create something extraordinary. The result was an opulent ceremony arch that left the bride in awe as she walked down the aisle. Moments like these underscore the value of trusting professional vendors to bring a couple’s vision to life.

Ultimately, weddings are about celebrating love and unity. While they require financial and emotional investment, hiring experienced professionals can alleviate stress and ensure a truly unforgettable day. As Alina puts it, “Weddings are worth celebrating, and the artistry that goes into creating them makes all the difference.”

For couples planning their big day, investing in professional vendors like Petals and Fields Design ensures a seamless and magical experience. Trust the experts to bring your dream wedding to life, allowing you to focus on what truly matters—celebrating love.